THE NEXT PART OF OUR JOURNEY
Viewing the House
To recap...in March 2020,
we were allowed the use of a house for our group home but we could not proceed
with anything... the pandemic lockdown was just about to begin.
We had
to be patient to wait out this inconvenience.
However, during
windows of opportunity to visit the house, we did, that is, in between periods
of government restrictions on people’s movements due to rising covid-19 cases.
When we were able
to be on site to view the inside and the compound of the house, a
semi-detached building; we realized we were facing a monumental task to make
it into a suitable and safe place for our adult children to live in.
The house was
very run down and towering over it was a huge wild tree that has taken
root in the compound. Its roots were deep and far reaching, and its branches sprawling and
overhanging to the ground.
With our limited knowledge about house structure, we had thought that we only needed to renovate the original house, as well as cut and uproot that huge tree, clear and clean the compound which had looked like a mini jungle. And of course to furnish the house before our adult children could move in.
Financial Need
The task was
monumental to us for the work had to be financed, and we did not know then where to
source for the money.
Then in March
2021, a non-government organisation (NGO) had approached us to offer assistance to
apply for federal government grant. The NGO made a group submission of our
working paper together with that of other centres, to the federal ministry.
Unfortunately, to date there had been no response from the ministry.
We were left
in a quandary again!
The months
passed on by quickly, while the house remained abandoned and the undergrowth
which we had cleared earlier had started to grow back.
How long more
can we wait?
By the end of
2021, it was already 5 years since the day we first met in the cafe in 2017. So
much had happened during that time including the death of two parents, and the
serious illness of another.
We had to
proceed as we cannot afford to waste more time.
Decisions
We decided to borrow from
one of our families to go ahead with the work. Although the loan came from her
retirement money meant for her old age, she had willingly offered to lent it so
that the group home can become a reality. She is almost 70 years old herself but was not hesitant with providing the loan.
A contractor builder was engaged to view the house structure, and unfortunately it was deemed very unsafe, with a sunken floor, a ceiling that was splitting and falling apart, exposing rusty bars within, among other parts that were also not in good condition.
It was necessary to demolish the house and rebuild a new one for long term safe use.
By December 2021, we had to decide quickly to begin the work on the house as prices of hardware materials were going up in January 2022 due to the current economic situation.
The next post is a report on the demolition, clearing and construction work, with pictures of the progress
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